Saturday, July 31, 2010

What do you do when your parent doesn't care about what you have to say?

i try and talk to my mom (don't have a dad) but she always seem to say im wrong or judge me due to my age (14) i try and just get her opinion but if she disagrees with me she gets mad when i tell her and cuts the conversation off. she just doesn't seem to understand so i asked her why doesn't she try and she said she doesn't want to because she doesn't care. i want to talk to her because she is my mom and the only adult i know really. what should i do?What do you do when your parent doesn't care about what you have to say?
wow...talk to your counselur at skool...maybe she is carrying to much and doesnt know the things she says to yu sometimes...im sorry your going thru this...but i hope that she lightens up her ways and cares more about yu =]///good luck sweetieWhat do you do when your parent doesn't care about what you have to say?
Your mom is doing this because it makes her feel like the boss. She can end the conversation like that. She likes the feeling of power. She can simply use the fact that she's the mom to win every single argument.





A person like that isn't a good person to talk to. Being an adult does not make you qualified to give good advice.
Ask her if she remembers being your age and how was her relationship with her mother did she do the same to her as she is doing to you? If that doesn't work ask her seriously if she would rather you seek advice else where and risk getting the wrong info? Or would she rather not do anything and when the time comes that she wants you and needs your help she will have pushed you so far away that you never will be there because that's what she has taught you? Or you'll just tell her you disagree that she needs you and don't have time to help her? All mothers get old and usually need some assistance from their children/ she is no different ? Will it be to late for the both of you by that time?
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