Why don't young people listen to their parent recommendation?

why Youth do what they like without listening to their parent?Why don't young people listen to their parent recommendation?
They think they know it all. Like we haven't been there, done that before. Remember we were teenagers once.Why don't young people listen to their parent recommendation?
You have to learn some things by making your own mistakes. Of course, sometimes you really ought to listen to your parents- things like money or housing advice- but when it comes to fashion or love or things like that, it doesn't matter if you don't take any notice.





Some of us actually ask our parents for advice when it matters by the way!





One situation where doing what your parents tell you to do is a really bad idea is when it comes to your education. If they want you to study something you hate, or stop studying, or go to university when you don't ant to, you should do what you want rather than what they want. It's you that has to put in the work and then have a career afterwards, so you should do the thing that will get you where you want to be as an adult.
We are determined to live for the moment, without any serious consideration to the long term effects of our actions.


The ability to learm from our mistakes is the only way the lessons of life can be learned.


Only when age, responsibility, and life in general forces itself upon us, do we realise that what our elders said may have saved us from predicaments that actually effect our lives.


Hopefully the lessons/reprocussions are not too harsh





By the time we are older, the more serious decisions can be made based on what we have learned, saving us from the serious mistakes that can inflict upon our lives, effecting out overall well beeing and life in general.





Let them find out themselves.


Loosen the Rains
I believe they do. By the time a child reaches adolescence, they have heard their parents so much that they often know what the parents will say before they say it. If they are ever going to develop an independent sense of self, they need to be able to establish a sphere of independent thought. If the parent is constantly violating that sphere, it can and will look like rebellion.





As a parent, I believe my most of my views are already inside that beloved, little head. ';Agree'; or ';disagree'; is part of that independent thought process. I strive to bolster their confidence that they can and should think for themselves. I am here if they need a reminder or verification.





Note:


This is not the same as rules. Those are not up for discussion.
Adolescents feel like they know what's better for them and tend not to listen to their parents due to many reasons. First off, the media and society have created roles that teenagers play which essentially create a mold for teenagers. Not to mention, the sharp shift of American culture from a traditional conservative outlook to a much more liberal outlook (this is evident even amongst conservatives).
half the time their parents are wrong





if i had had a chance to not listen to my parents and do what I fealt was right for me i would have been a lot more happy


and a lot less naive





I promised i was not going to smother my kids and let them do what they want and for some reason i get a lot of flack for it from other adults but i know my kids will appreciate it.
Because it's a natural thing. Children always rebel against their parents because they want to be free from parental contstraints.





People always at some stage want to grow up to be different than their parents, spotting any flaws and trying to correct them.


Children want to grow up to be cooler than their parents and many want to grow up to live much more adventurous lives.
parents do understand. they were children at one time.youth dont listen cause they are striving to be independent at this point in their life the same as the youth is in this time of their life.the youth really do not want to be completely on their own, but they dont want to hear what parents have to say either.there has to be some way to teach our children.
i always listen to my parents because withouthem i wudnt be here i wudnt have what i have!!! and every time my parents recomend something it always turns out for the best!! some dont because maybe its alittle un cool or sometimes they are alittle annoying!!
What do they call it, oh yes. Reverse sycology. If the parents are the spawn of the devil the child become a saint. If the parents are holier than though, they turn into little devils.


It's to do with youngsters challenging and demonstrating thier authority.
Some learn the easy way and some learn the hard way and some make their own way. And if you choose which one they will never have a mind of their own. Let it ride.
If you haven't noticed yet鈥?young people are stupid. It seems that brain can't comprehend the idea: they've been around this Earth twice as long as me they MIGHT know something I don't'; until it's too late to matter.
'Cause parents just don't understand.
Because nobody wants to hear what their parents have to say even though most of the time they are right